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Monday, July 30, 2018

Wrong conclusion.
Somebody told me once that I was judgmental. She was wrong. I am opinionated, yes. But not judgmental, definitely not.

My definition is; an opinion is to be refined, polished, changed if necessary. If you come to a new interpretation, new understanding of a person, or a situation then you adjust your opinion. An opinion is your own idea based on your own perception.

You are judgmental if you measure people (mostly) around you according to common beliefs, dogmatic reasoning, conform guidelines. Being judgmental means in my opinion (haha) that you are not thinking independently.

Saturday, July 14, 2018

Daydreams again.
I dreamt that I was reaching out for you.
You were so close; I could hear you breathe.
You were smiling.
I could see my hands almost touching you.
You weren’t there.
You were, but you weren’t.
I was there, but I wasn’t.

Monday, July 9, 2018

Kindness.
It is easy to forgive. Not easy to forget.
Can you really forgive without forgetting?
Can you protect yourself if you do forget?
What to do when the interaction prevents you
from following your own rules?
What if you can’t alter the synergy?